Open letter to JimElite12
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Let this be a lesson to you...
Submitted By admin on 09/10/16
Mars Explorer, admin, Community, Player Chatter
This Document originally posted in the "Mars Explorer" Group
Jim;
You account was just closed because you sent rude PMs to other Martians.
If you would like to apologize personally to those who you sent the PMs to and rejoin the community, I would be glad to reinstate your account. You know how to contact me.
Many people enjoyed playing with you, and you contributed a lot to our community. We'll welcome you back if you would like to work on being your former self!
Creating multiple accounts multiple times, posting profanity to this site multiple times, and lying to me about all of it multiple times is not acceptable.
Sincerely,
-Aubrey
P.S. To the rest of you self styled "cult" members: I have no official objection to people organizing into clubs. Personally I consider it to be immature and unproductive, but that is your concern. I only involve myself in disputes when things get out of hand - or more specifically - when players are being harassed and junk is being posted to the site. If you would all like to get your accounts closed, continue your errant ways. If you would instead prefer to become respectable members of this community, all you have to do is start acting like them. The only obstacle is your own obstinacy.
If you feel that you constitute some kind of rejected minority and that you have to "keep together" for protection, you are simply mistaken. I have joined many Mars Explorer games with a goofy name and a whimsical style - and am nearly always greeted with the greatest amity. If you are friendly and someone else isn't - don't squabble, don't get bitter, and certainly don't be mean back to them. Move on!
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babag
5 weeks - 32,767v
Posted 2009/10/16 - 22:03 GMT
Agreed.
The first, and easiest step for the cult members to be forgiven is to simply drop the title from their name.
I will openly and honestly embrace anyone of the cult members, including jim and flittermice, who does this.
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Thank you Aubrey!
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Thank you Aubrey for this. It will hopefully give Jim a better look at what he has caused us. This will hopefully help him in the future, should he follow what you advised.
Ω- Aeolese
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jim, i completely forgive you. what you do is your buisness. i will forget this, and just remember the good times we've had.
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PLEASE BAN #CLUB! (shift 3) he is cussing everyone out, and is being INCREDIBLY offensive to everyone
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He has already been banned.
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Uhh...sorry dude, but that's who Jim was.
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Go Aubrey! I'm used to the calm, casual admin we all know and love, but it's awesome when you assert yourself like this!
I personally haven't been abused by Jim or the "cult," but I still frown upon immature behavior like you're describing.
Btw, i'm glad that you monitor the website, and enforce polite behavior. If you had just built the game and left it without patrolling the website, there would probably be no players here anymore.
I personally haven't been abused by Jim or the "cult," but I still frown upon immature behavior like you're describing.
Btw, i'm glad that you monitor the website, and enforce polite behavior. If you had just built the game and left it without patrolling the website, there would probably be no players here anymore.
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*** Jim's account has been reinstated, as per his agreement to apologize to the players he sent rude PMs to and remember to conduct himself with propriety in the future. ***
Jim: You can either send them nice PMs or post here.
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Ok, Aubrey. I hope you will take immediate action if he returns to his ways. Thanks for the update.
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BAM!
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I love that we have a christian as a moderator. BAM!
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:D mez too!
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:D
YYYAAAAAYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!
YYYAAAAAYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!
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:D
mehbeh mehbeh nowz we we cans al Luz each odder!
Welp I personally never had a problem with Jim* cept we copied my numbers which led spongejax to tell me someone cloned me which lead me to come back to marsxplr* but I'm never on the marsxplr site so I really don't know what he did. All I know is that I do not want to know, and keep the way I still look at him the same. ^�^
Anyways thank you Aubrey for stepping in in this club issue. I think we all Luz you,and appreciate you even more for doing so :D
Ren,Renny,Renners,Rennifer*yea i've been called that XD*
mehbeh mehbeh nowz we we cans al Luz each odder!
Welp I personally never had a problem with Jim* cept we copied my numbers which led spongejax to tell me someone cloned me which lead me to come back to marsxplr* but I'm never on the marsxplr site so I really don't know what he did. All I know is that I do not want to know, and keep the way I still look at him the same. ^�^
Anyways thank you Aubrey for stepping in in this club issue. I think we all Luz you,and appreciate you even more for doing so :D
Ren,Renny,Renners,Rennifer*yea i've been called that XD*
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No apology and he's been noobish again. Ban!
Edit: lol I put an m instead of an n... Ban!
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I'm not being "noobish" again. I have said sorry to everyone multiple times. Still Flyclub and everyone treat me like there toilet paper.
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Eh, I haven't seen you yet. Say sorry to me, and I will forgive and forget.
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Jim, I havent actually read any apologies yet.
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He was sending them by PMs.
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Why not a public one? oops almost missed out the l lololol XD
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Okay I am sorry I think this is a good post for the Cult to see but I am SICK of the flippin' conflicts that arise. It makes me sad that Aubrey had to get involved in this, as good of a guy he is. I do not hold grudges against any of the Cult members, either, yet it makes me sick to see the tempers flare here. I am DONE with posting on this type of stuff, I can't stand it anymore!
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Well dude, it ain't peaches and cream for the rest of us, either. You can be done all you want while we attempt to patch things up, but you aren't some sort of overlord who controls conflicts. If you'd like to be, good luck. If not, then OK. I'm just sayin'.
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Woah woah woah. WOAH
Listen aeolese, he is a simple child who is probably used to friends and family who do not have much arguement. I suggest you let the little boy spill his heart out about how he loves the world an everyone in it.*like meh*
I know it ain't peaches and cream thar sonny but sometimes ya gotta smash a pie in your own face
.....Whatever that means, I just made it up xD
Listen aeolese, he is a simple child who is probably used to friends and family who do not have much arguement. I suggest you let the little boy spill his heart out about how he loves the world an everyone in it.*like meh*
I know it ain't peaches and cream thar sonny but sometimes ya gotta smash a pie in your own face
.....Whatever that means, I just made it up xD
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LOL ok Ren. Thanks.
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Jim, you may FEEL as if "everyone treats you like toilet paper" but is that statement really accurate?
Haven't you joined two games so far with me in them, each holding about five players?
And wasn't only one player out of all those ten mean to you?
Didn't the rest of us greet you cordially and some even speak up on your behalf?
Please think about it Jim.
There are a lot of players eager for you to rejoin the community and some are even cheering for you!
Doesn't that mean something to you?
Will you try to let it mean something to you?
Sincerely, kruncher
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Yeah see Jimmy I waz never mean ever! I stuck up for youz when a certain someone bagged on you!
Renny likes talking weirdly lmao
Anyways Jim, Krunchy is right,a lot of people*like me, and somewhat krunchy* like youz and don't mind ya! Specially ren :D you can always come to me if ya feel like no one respects you ok Jimmy boy!
Renny likes talking weirdly lmao
Anyways Jim, Krunchy is right,a lot of people*like me, and somewhat krunchy* like youz and don't mind ya! Specially ren :D you can always come to me if ya feel like no one respects you ok Jimmy boy!
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heey im still jims buddy too! :D
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I VOTE FRESH START.
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Jim,
There may be some people out there that may still not trust you. If you get mad about it, that's not helping.
If you want people to like you, do something worth liking. Do something of VALUE and then you can win back their trust.
That's all I have to say.
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I'm tired of this. Yeah, Ren, you were right. But it seems like an endless saga that will last...well, endless. Eternally. Of course not, but heck, it sure sounds like it. Again, I still vote a fresh start. It's in the past. What's back there ain't in front of ya.
Sure, I'm Jim's buddy again. All I want is the Mars Explorer community to live in peace again. We're all tryin' to get there, as I mentioned a bit earlier that Ren corrected. I don't know how we could get there quicker. But it's one of those things where you WANT it to be done, but it'll take time. And healing. And apologies. And the list goes on.
Αeolese
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Hmmmmmm I have been on here mmmmm I think a year now and the only time I ever saw peace was when I was a n00b for the first 2 months......
Ummmm I wasn't even with regular players an like all these people were fighting cause someone called them something and what not.
Point of this only time that we will ever have peace, is if we go back to the begening of marsxplr.....where gladt said it was just a bunch of players, playing and gettin along....... Think of it as heaven on mars
Ummmm I wasn't even with regular players an like all these people were fighting cause someone called them something and what not.
Point of this only time that we will ever have peace, is if we go back to the begening of marsxplr.....where gladt said it was just a bunch of players, playing and gettin along....... Think of it as heaven on mars
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Let me say something. I have tried to forget about this incident and just move on. Thats all in the past now isn't it? But someone I will not say there name won't except me going back to normal. Also many people think I have "Issues" and need "help" I really don't. I have just have had problems at home in the real world.
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Jim, As a neutral force in this matter, i can say that both sides have problems, and neither of you are looking from the other persons shoes.
One side did wrong and apologized to some while instigating a fight with others. The other side retalliated and the side to start it wont see that they are just adding fuel to fire, and if they do see it, they are being quite rude about it. The second side wont accept the half hearted apology made by the second, and i dont think he should. I think all should be forgiven, but only if both sides truly mean it.
So far all i've seen is one side blaming others for their actions when the people he blames are not to blame for any thing at all and in fact are trying to help. I would almost call it crying wolf. Dont be in awe when no one comes to your rescue next time.
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I would love to have the old jim back but is a public apology too much to ask after all this? :(
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This will take quite a while to finish off.
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Not if we don't let it
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*sees Jim and Dude fighting*
GOOD LORD! Kiss and make up you two! Sheesh do I have to force it cause I will*gets devious look on face*
dudey and Jimmy boi make up please by god you two are the most argumentive*besides me and dude xD* people on here!
GOOD LORD! Kiss and make up you two! Sheesh do I have to force it cause I will*gets devious look on face*
dudey and Jimmy boi make up please by god you two are the most argumentive*besides me and dude xD* people on here!
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Renny I don't kiss boys. You do.
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That's sick. Why would you post something like that, Jim? It's not right.
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>o<
dear Jimmy ever thought ioff breaking the rules to make peace....*s*
dear Jimmy ever thought ioff breaking the rules to make peace....*s*
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Aubrey has now been sent a copy of the pm's you sent to me JimElite12,
and he has also been informed of your actions towards me.
Jim, you went way too far, and I demand an apology,
then I simply want you to get out of my life.
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Is anyone else noticing that dudey here can only forgive girls.....
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I will offer some advice, all are free to take it or leave it.
Do not drag your conflicts to other people, it's harsh and unfair.
No matter what happens to you with another person or with yourself, keep your friends and everyone else out of it, they dont deserve any resentment you may be having for another person.
Thank you.
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ok.some of you really pissed me off in this post. all of you who dnt forgive Jim and want to post shit about him and not forgive him after he apologized to you and can go fuck themselves. we all make mistakes and the ppl who dnt forgive Jim are just a bunch of hipocrits. Can you honestly say you've NEVER did something wrong to some1 on this game? just stop posting on it and forgive him! jesus christ is It that hard???
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Well mr know it all I haven't seen one sorry just insults and cursing.
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Blue, who's going to listen to you, who is doing the same thing, cussing and being mean......and jim, i mean really if you want someone to forgive you you have to show them that you have changed for the better and if they keep giving you crap about it then ignore them and play with the people who are always welcoming people into their games such as King Dvo or me and many more people....if you keep up what you had been doing then no duh nobody will forgive you so just let it go and if somebody says something aboutit like "hey i never got and apology" then apologize on that post so that people can see that you have changed and apologized.
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You can hate me all you want. But I really don't care I will just block you off and live my own life. I agree with Blue my FRIEND!
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I have sent the sorry's in PM's.
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Why not public? Why NOT?
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How do you know?
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Well I'm guessing dude ain't had 1... Or me.
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Alright people. This just silly business now. To me, this ain't funny at all. It was intense when it first came, but now it is clearly tearing up the people who are the best friends in the universe. We have to forgive and move on. No Jim, I will not side with you. As much as it was offensive about how you violently swore in one post, I refuse to take sides with FC and everyone else. Because it's stupid. It really is.
I can be a peacemaker or comment or critic. But now i'm out of it and being a peacemaker. Because, no matter how you all look at it, everyday, this gets more and more people ticked off and it kills the REAL mars Explorer community. It kills the community that WAS the peaceful fun community. NOTICE how i capitalized WAS. It kills the community where, for some folks, after a long day of work or school or whatever, they just want to have fun and play a good dogfight or so. But then this issue arises again and dang, it stresses people out. This is a punch in the face by treason. Once this started, i can nearly guarantee it will take, at the minimum, at least 1 week to patch up.
Now, for the first time since signing into my account over the summer when I first got it, do I truly understand why they're leaving. No matter what, part of it has to be drama. And with the amount of intense tension, drama, and anger, I wouldn't be surprised if even Flyclub left. (Well, yes I would, but I would still take into account all the stress on FC.)
C'mon, guys. We gotta be mature. Or we will crumble and this whole place will crumble. It is sad. But every day, our time ticks nearer as more and more anger becomes to this community.
I am not blaming anyone, but I will sum it up in the following: Suck it up, Man up, and let's face this like a calm, socialized group would. We would solve it TOGETHER.
(Heck I DO NOT CARE IF IT WAS A WHOLE LOT OF DRAMA. BECAUSE THIS IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN WANTING TO SAY FOR THE LAST 3-4 DAYS!!! AFTER CONSTANT HEARING ABOUT HOW JIM IS BEING THIS AND JIM IS BEING THAT, WELL I FIND IT PRETTY FREAKING ANGERING!!!) (Yes i did need to use caps there. I am truly mad.)
Ω- For the game's sake, I hope we can solve this. Aeolese
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AMEN! I agree totally. This has gone back to WAY before I was here, oh wait... THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR EVERYONE'S WHOLE LIFE! I do agree with what Aeo said, and we do need to quit it or risk tearing the community, but getting mad.... I admit I have done this, but still. Other than that, preach on Aeo, preach on.
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Yeah...but guys, there will never be peace, world or mars, there will always be arguments and pain, hurting, tears etc. No matter what it'll never stop, think about it's true, wull untill God comes that is
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Liz, (respecting your religious beliefs) I have faith it is possible to stop this. Whatever starts can stop. You just have to approach it different ways. What I said was we need to be mature and calm about this and deal with the situation. I think we can stop it if we work together.
Thanks T.S., by the way :)
~Aeolese
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Ahhh, but for every problem solved, two questions arise!
Once a domino is tipped, even if it eventually stops moving,the dominos in front will trigger.
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I agree we can stop this, but there's always going to be conflict on mars some way or another
And really lol it doesn't have to do with religion.
But I mean serusly there's always going to be conflict, even just little ones like fighting over warm pizza ^^
But I see what your saying
And really lol it doesn't have to do with religion.
But I mean serusly there's always going to be conflict, even just little ones like fighting over warm pizza ^^
But I see what your saying
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Liz, you are right. There will be conflicts at some given point. I totally agree.
But, this one blew up in everyone's faces, and we're all really ticked on it.
It seems like it's gotten better. I still deem it out of hand.
We all gotta calm down and ask ourselves 'Hmm...What can I fix today?'
(Preferably on mars explorer :D)
Conflicts have, do, and will tear people apart.
We can at least nurse this one into a better state.
Mid-week! Woo!
~Aeolese
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Oh my god. Listen all you people who keep this argumet going.
Blue no cussing
aeloese stop accusing
babs keep helping store order
ren tell everyone what to do wait I'm doing that!
POINT OF THIS JIM MAKE A FRICKEN APOLOGY TO EVERYONE EXCEPT DUDEY HERE WHO IS BEEN MOOY ABOUT IT
2. WE WILL NEVER RESTORE PEACE
3. DARN NUN SHUT UP JIM YOUR REALLY ANNOTING EVERYONE AND MAKING US FEEL SORRY FOR YOU ISNT WORKING!*I still love you though*
Blue no cussing
aeloese stop accusing
babs keep helping store order
ren tell everyone what to do wait I'm doing that!
POINT OF THIS JIM MAKE A FRICKEN APOLOGY TO EVERYONE EXCEPT DUDEY HERE WHO IS BEEN MOOY ABOUT IT
2. WE WILL NEVER RESTORE PEACE
3. DARN NUN SHUT UP JIM YOUR REALLY ANNOTING EVERYONE AND MAKING US FEEL SORRY FOR YOU ISNT WORKING!*I still love you though*
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Anyone care to comment on that? Cause I do.
You need to relax.
Jim's gotta apologize.
THEN maybe we can get this fixed.
(Changed my view of things just now lol)
Jim, you have to apologize, or everyone's gonna beat on you a whole lot harder everyday.
As I stated before, This is tearing us apart.
We're a community, not abusive jerks. Abusive jerks are plainly abusive jerks.
IN CONCLUSION: JIM, APOLOGIZE ASAP. That's my suggestion.
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Aeolese
Who keeps bringing this to the top?
You
Who reminds everyone of this
you
Stop please
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Who keeps commenting?
All you.
Who tries to slow it down?
Me and some other folks.
But since I haven't seen an apology from Jim, I won't be sure about anything.
This community will experience more wear and tear for a long ways to come.
Am I preaching?
Whatever you want to call it.
Am I helping?
Whatever anyone wants to say.
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First of all let me say I DON'T suspect jim at all but I do feel this is an appropriate place to exhibit this screenshot of a PM I just received from a new account called (krunchar).

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I would not suspect the Xs either, DarknessX seems nice enough now.
Not that I really know.
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what n00bs.
they need to get a life.
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As I said to a n00b on Crashdrive once:
Do you really have that little of a life.
Are you telling me you have nothing better to do then make little kids cry with your pointless spam.
Get a life.
I hear you can download one off of CNET.
(directed at krunchar)
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Jim, one little thing can easily break trust, and it takes a long time before you can regain that trust.
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Ummm..... Why did we bam this post?It doesn't bring back good memories.
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we are talking about a n00b who calls himself krunchar
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Then why comment here? Comment somewhere else.!!








